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Thursday, December 26, 2019

“How to Keep Work From Working Your Nerves?!”

 
“AVOID WORKPLACE CONTAMINATION!” Ephesians 6:13, “Be Prepared…” (MSG)  

The “toxins” in our workplace environment can invade our attitudes, thoughts and behaviors. So, stay focused on the spiritual battle that awaits you. Prepare for it each morning by putting on your armor. What armor?“Be prepared. You’re up against far more than you can handle on your own. Take all the help you can get, every weapon God has issued, so that when it’s all over but the shouting you’ll still be on your feet. Truth, righteousness, peace, faith, and salvation are more than words. Learn how to apply them. You’ll need them throughout your life. God’s Word is an indispensable weapon. In the same way, prayer is essential in this ongoing warfare. Pray hard and long. Pray for your brothers and sisters. Keep your eyes open. Keep each other’s spirits up so that no one falls behind or drops out” (Ephesians 6:13-18 MSG).

The problem with many of us is that we prepare to go to work putting on the best clothes, the prettiest shoes, the most flawless makeup and the most neatly crafted hair styles, but we fail to put on the most important of all, the Full Armor of God! And then we wonder why we can’t handle their whispers, the rolling of their eyes, the sucking of their teeth, the water cooler lies, or the bathroom rumor mill meeting places. You can’t handle it because you didn’t prepare yourself to handle it! Please understand, the most important thing before work is not your coffee, it’s your Armor! And until we get our priorities in order, persecution will forever triumph over us in the workplace! In addition, before picking up the phone, pick yourself up and call on God! It’s called Prayer! You can’t talk to everybody and leave God out, and then when everybody is talking about you, you call on Him to get them like He’s a dog you sic on an aggravating enemy! It simply does not work that way!

Therefore, since a piece of your Armor needs to be your prayer life, perhaps you’d like to pray the following prayer to get you started: “Father, thank You for the blessings of my present job. As I suit up for work today, protect me, strengthen me, use me and bless me. Let me remain focused on You, allowing Your Word and Your Presence to shield me from all contaminants such as pride, insensitivity, being short-tempered, and failure to show love. My worth comes from you, not my job, so I rest in the knowledge that you see all I do, and that my labor will not go unrewarded. In Jesus’ Name I pray. Amen.” 
Prayer is Vital to Solving Problems!

You also need to learn how to keep things in proper perspective, always! Your job is your Resource, your God is your Source! So stop acting like your job is more than it is, don’t make it an idol, regardless to how much your salary is or what the title says on your office door! You are there to do a good job, get a paycheck, represent your Savior well and go home! It really is just that simple! Unfortunately, however, we make it complicated by allowing toxins to contaminate us! Listen: The word “Toxin” means “a poisonous substance”. And “Poison” means “a substance that causes death or injury when introduced into or absorbed by a living organism; a destructive or corrupting influence” Its Old French Origin means “Magic Potion”, from Latin “Potio” which means “Potion”. And “Contaminate” means “to make impure by exposure to.” Its Latin Origin “Contaminare” means “Make Impure”, from “Contamen” which means “Contact, Pollution.” And what does all of that mean?

You experience Workplace Contamination when you come into contact with people who have a poisonous personality that proves its influence is destructive and deteriorating. And once you’re exposed to it, it works like a ‘magic potion’, it pulls stuff out of you that you would have never thought would come out of you! So understand this, your coworkers and bosses are people you work with. You need to learn how to set up barriers, and have only necessary contact to get the job done. Anything outside of that, come out from among them and be ye separated says the Apostle Paul! Stop allowing their substance to influence you to behave, conduct yourself and speak in a manner that you know would not be pleasing to your Savior, whom you are there to represent, even on your 9-5!

People of God, get yourself together, do your job, keep as much of you separated as possible, get your paycheck and go home! Does that hinder you from sharing the gospel when an opportunity arises? Absolutely not, but don’t be foolish, when you are tempted to act out of character, that is not a witness for Christ! Some plant, some water, but God gives the increase says the Scripture. However, if you know for certain that you can’t do this without becoming contaminated, you don’t attempt to plant or water any further, you walk away and simply be the extra person who sits on the sidelines, prays and keeps quiet!

Look at it like this: Ships sail on water, but if the water gets in, even a Battleship will sink! So, go through the waters of your work environment without allowing them to get in you, and contaminate you. And be realistic in expecting what the job will deliver. Keep your focus on why you’re there, Who sent you, Who sees you, and Who’s preparing you for greater things. Go into work, but don’t let work get into you! Proverbs 16:3, “Put God in charge of your work, then what you’ve planned will take place.” (MSG)

“3 STEPS TO KEEPING YOUR JOB!” James 1:19, “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” (NIV)

Eighty percent of the time people don’t lose their job because of Technical incompetence, but because of Relational incompetence—in other words, they don’t know how to work well with other people. But if you master the 3 instructions that James gives, the likelihood of that happening to you, will go down to zero. 

Therefore:

1. BE QUICK TO LISTEN! By staying calm and refusing to react, you gain insight—and respect! Which is why the Bible states: “A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.” (Proverbs 29:11 NIV). Learn how to hear a matter out, and not just to make a point, to show someone up, or to show out yourself! But be quick to listen to Someone Else! The word “Quick” is defined as “moving fast; with little or no delay; immediately; prompt.” Its Old English Origin means “Alive and Alert”. In other words, when someone is saying something you don’t like, or they have a critique or even a critical comment, remember YOU have control over YOU! So be quick to listen, move fast to shut your mouth and open your ears! Make no delay, do it promptly and immediately! Truth is, the greatest misunderstandings come from “Miscommunication”, which is nothing more than “Missing the Point of What Was Actually Communicated!Remember: You Can’t Talk And Listen Attentively at the same time!

2. BE SLOW TO SPEAK! If you talk too much or too fast, here are 3 tips to slow you down:

                a. STOP! Just stop talking! Inhale slowly, exhale slowly, count to 10, excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. Whatever it takes, just shut up. Psalm 39:1 says, “I said, I will take heed to my ways, that I sin not with my tongue: I will keep my mouth with a bridle, while the wicked is before me.” Then Wisdom further declares, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.Proverbs 18:21. The last thing you want is someone’s reputation, character or spirit to be destroyed—because you can’t control your mouth!

                b. PRACTICE NOT INTERRUPTING! Allow the other person to continue what they’re saying until they’re finished. Even dunces who keep quiet are thought to be wise; as long as they keep their mouths shut, they’re smart.Proverbs 17:28 MSG.

                c. ASK YOURSELF QUESTIONS! Why am I talking so much? Is it insecurity? Anxiety? The need to control? A desire to impress? The reason most of us try to convince, impress or control others is because we have a hard time trusting God to work things out for us. In other words, “our talk issue, is really a trust issue.” Ask God to help you with this!

Remember: You are to be Slow to Speak! Might I add, that is the opposite of QUICK! In fact, the word “Slow” is defined as “lasting or taking a long time; showing little activity”. In other words, your ears should be working overtime and your mouth should be unemployed! Get it? Good!

3. BE SLOW TO ANGER! If you observe the first two principles, you’ll tend to come out all right on number three. It’ll naturally happen. When you manage to be a quick listener and a slow speaker, handling anger becomes a non-issue. Who gets angry when they’re busy being quick to listen and slow to speak? You don’t have time to get angry, you’re too busy concentrating on making sure the right organs are going at the right speed! Seriously, you can make progress on the job by acting on this advice from James, and what better time than today to get started? Remember: like a car, make sure you are always going the right speed limit, there are indeed consequences if you don’t! Bear in mind: Proverbs 12:14, “Well-spoken words bring satisfaction; well-done work has its own reward.(MSG). 

“HOW TO SUCCEED ON THE JOB?” Ephesians 6:7, “With good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men”.  

How do you succeed? 

1. BY KEEPING YOUR EYES ON YOUR JOB OBJECTIVE! For example: Are you selling windows? Then don’t walk into someone’s house and offer unsolicited advice about their living room décor. In other words, focus on what you’re called to do. People can be easily offended, and by speaking about areas outside your expertise—what your customer has solicited your help in—is now jeopardized. So keep proper perspective on the assignment at hand.

2. BY LEARNING TO APPRECIATE PEOPLE, EVEN THOSE YOU DON’T LIKE! Customers and Co-Workers are not friends; friends are friends. Understand, embrace and accept the difference! Place value on others. Respect them, even if your personal opinions differ from theirs! Remember, your success is not determined by personalities! It’s about business, not buddies, so stay focused.

3. BY TREATING EVERYONE FAIRLY AND EQUALLY! If you show favoritism by only being kind and respectful to those you like, you’re in for trouble—if not now, then surely somewhere down the road. You need to learn how to work with people who aren’t your favorites. Why? Because they will remember your attitude, whether good or bad, and based on that they may not be particularly inclined to help you in the future. And just in case you decide to test the waters, don’t be surprised if God allows them to be your only contact to fulfill your next assignment!

4. BY TRYING NOT TO TAKE THINGS PERSONALLY! You must learn to let go of grudges and to set aside past histories with your co-workers. When you find your emotions flaring up and you’re tempted to react, stop and remember what’s really going on; you’re in the midst of a battle and the first shots have been fired. This is the time to say a silent prayer, remember your true calling, and respond with love, patience and a professionalism that will cause those around you to respect what you’re made of!

In a Nutshell: What we see on Sunday in your work for God, should be a direct reflection of what others see in your work from Monday through Saturday. If you’re going to succeed on the job, these are mandatory! Bear in mind: Proverbs 22:29, “Observe people who are good at their work—skilled workers are always in demand and admired; they don’t take a backseat to anyone.(MSG).

“UNDERSTAND WHAT GOD VALUES ABOUT YOUR WORK!” James 4:10, “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.” NKJV. 

What does God value in our job performance? 

1. HE VALUES HUMILITY AND SERVANTHOOD, NOT PRIDE AND A SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT! Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and He will lift you up.If we are secure in our identity as God’s children, we can relax and know that, like the loving parent He is, our Heavenly Father will recognize and reward us fairly and generously. Knowing this, frees us from having to be recognized by others. Indeed, if being appreciated is your sole reason for working, God will have people overlook you on purpose until you get the order of work straight in your mind. And that is, you can be appreciated at home, by your friends and your family, but work is just what it sounds like: WORK!

2. HE VALUES COURAGE AND RISK-TAKING! Consider the faith it took for David to leave his home, the humble shepherd’s pallet on the hillsides, and travel to King Saul’s palace. He must have felt just a little out of place, knowing he was under-dressed and uninformed about the culture of the royal court. Like a boy from the slums suddenly finding himself in Buckingham Palace, David was instantly out of his comfort zone. Then later, after it’s clear that his new boss is afflicted by an evil spirit and intends to kill him, David coolly maintains his mission because he knows God wants him there. Remember: “…HE will lift you up.One day, David would have his boss’s position, palace and perks, but he had to leave the How and the When up to God and serve faithfully. The same goes for you! Bear in mind: Proverbs 25:6, “Don’t work yourself into the spotlight; don’t push your way into the place of prominence. It’s better to be promoted to a place of honor than face humiliation by being demoted.(MSG).

“LEARN TO USE YOUR BUSINESS TO DO GOD’S BUSINESS!” Luke 5:3, “…using the boat for a pulpit, he taught the crowd.” MSG 

Luke writes: “He climbed into the boat that was [Peter’s]…using the boat for a pulpit, He taught the crowd” (Luke 5:2-3 MSG).
  
All our “Boats” belong to Jesus. You may say, ‘I don’t have a boat.’ Yes you do. We all do. You see your “Boat” is where you spend your time making a living. So in case you need clarity, Jesus says to you, “You may drive My garbage truck…work on My construction site…change bed pans in My hospital …preside in My courtroom…edit My newspaper…program My computer…sew in purple weaves in My beauty shop…glue on acrylic nails in My salon…even serve fries and a shake in My McDonald’s. But never fail to remember, Your work is My work! So always make sure your boat is available for My use!”   
            
Later, Peter the boat owner wrote: “You are royal priests. As a result, you can show others the goodness of God.” (1 Peter 2:9 NLT). And what does a priest do? He represents God to the people—and you’re supposed to do the same thing with your work! Regardless, to what type of work it is, you are to do it as unto the Lord. Your work represents His work. …Let every detail in your lives—words, actions, whatever—be done in the name of the Master, Jesus…” (Colossians 3:17 MSG). Moses prayed, “…let the loveliness of our Lord…rest on us, confirming the work that we do. Oh, yes. Affirm the work that we do” (Psalm 90:17 MSG). It will not always be in the Gospel you preach that reveals the Glory of your God to people. They can see it in the way you comb hair, pull a tooth, mop a floor, empty a garbage can, type a letter, flip a burger, or even push a stroller. The bottom line is: Whatever you say they should hear God, and whatever you do they should see God.      
         
Perhaps you still see no way God could use your work. Your boss has the disposition of a pit bull. Hamsters have larger work areas then you do; your kids have a better per diem. You feel like you’re sentenced to an outpost in Siberia, and hope for a promotion has left on the last train to Georgia. But that’s why Henry Giles, a 19th century preacher, said, “There is no task so low that we may not elevate it; so dull that we may not enliven it, if we understand that what we are doing is service to our Lord Jesus Christ.So whether you wear a skirt and a blazer or a hair net and an apron…your business is God’s business. Advertise Him well! Bear in mind: Proverbs 16:11, “God cares about honesty in the workplace; your business is his business.MSG.

People of God, in order to Stop Allowing the Workplace to Work Your Last Nerve Remember: 

a) “AVOID WORKPLACE CONTAMINATION!”; 

b) Use the “3 STEPS TO KEEPING YOUR JOB!” (Be Quick to Listen; Be Slow to Speak and Be Slow to Anger); 

c) Learn “HOW TO SUCCEED ON THE JOB?” (Keep Your Eyes On Your Job Objective; Learn to Appreciate People, Even Those You Don’t Like; and Treat Everyone Fairly and Equally); 

d) “UNDERSTAND WHAT GOD VALUES ABOUT YOUR WORK!” (God Values Humility and Servanthood, Not Pride and a Sense of Entitlement; God Values Courage and Risk-Taking); 

e) “LEARN TO USE YOUR BUSINESS TO DO GOD’S BUSINESS!”

Remember: YOU ARE EMPLOYED, NOT ENSLAVED! Stop Taking Everything Personal, Take it Professional. Never Step Out of Character! Guard Your Heart, Mind and Mouth! Control Your Actions! Always Put Your Best Foot Forward! Be On Your Best Behavior at All Times! Do Your Work and Stop Allowing Your Work to Do You In!
 
Much Love, Dr. Shermaine #EnjoyTheRead #BeInspired #BeEncouraged #BeEmpowered #BeChallenged #ShareTheWord #HealthyBodySoulAndSpirit #IWantYou2LiveWell
 

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