"HOW TO HEAL A BROKEN CHRISTMAS?"

 

With having had two teenage boys who loved football, there was one Christmas gift that was a sure hit – a new leather football! And seeing how it was a rare 60-degree Christmas morning, do you think the guys were going to just sit around the Christmas tree and admire that ball? Absolutely not! They went right outside and did what you’re supposed to do with a football! Play Football!

Here they were, Pastor Ron and his boys – the three men of the house – running quickly out of the house, out into the middle of the street, passing that football back and forth. 

Then it happened…Pastor Ron went back for a long one; the pass was heading straight to him! And he caught it! However, he caught it right on the end of his little finger! The emergency room? Yeah, that’s not exactly where you want to spend a huge chunk of your Christmas time, but that’s exactly where Pastor Ron was, and with a special souvenir of that Christmas – a broken finger! I believe Pastor Ron will agree; it’s no fun having something Broken, especially  during Christmas!

And it’s far worse, if what’s broken is a relationship you really care about, or your family is broken, or your heart is broken, your joy is broken, your peace is broken, your trust has been broken, your loyalty has been broken. In fact, all the “joy to the world” around you just seems to make the hurt even worse! And often the Christmas Season has a tendency to bring painful reminders of the things and people that have hurt us the most, and broken us to pieces! A mother who walked away and never came back; a father who passed away; a marriage that ended; a child that left home; a doctor’s sad report; the loss of a job after 20 years; the senseless loss of a friends life; a relationship that’s beyond repair…and the list could go on forever. 

Well, you need to know that the One whose ‘birthday’ we’re celebrating knows about what’s broken and He knows how much it’s hurting you. He cares about that pain, He cares about your loneliness, and more importantly, He truly understands!


Remember, this Jesus who we celebrate this Christmas was, in the words of the Bible, a “man of sorrows and familiar with suffering” (Isaiah 53:3). The Amplified Bible says it like this: “He was despised and rejected and forsaken by men, a Man of sorrows and pains, and acquainted with grief and sickness; and like One from Whom men hide their faces He was despised, and we did not appreciate His worth or have any esteem for Him.” (AMP) The Contemporary English Bible says it like this: “He was hated and rejected; his life was filled with sorrow and terrible suffering. No one wanted to look at him. We despised him and said, “He is a nobody!” (CEB)

JESUS was misunderstood, despised, rejected, forsaken, hated, filled with sorrows, pain, grief, sickness and terrible suffering, abandoned, betrayed, falsely accused, and even mocked, spat upon, pierced and put to death! So, in case you feel as if no one knows how you feel; no one can identify with your brokenness, rest assured, JESUS KNOWS, JESUS CARES AND JESUS UNDERSTANDS!

While everyone around you may be celebrating and totally unaware of how you’re hurting, please know that Jesus is moving close to you today, and He wants to do something very powerful for you this Christmas…And That’s to Heal What’s Broken!

I know this may sound like a depressing devotional, however, believe it or not, far too many are dreading this Christmas! Truth is, someone, somewhere will cry this Christmas, will be alone this Christmas, will feel left, rejected and abandoned this Christmas. Someone will commit suicide this Christmas. Someone will throw in the towel on life for good this Christmas. Someone, somewhere is wondering “what do I have to celebrate this Christmas?…he left me…she doesn’t love me…he died…she’s sick…what could I possibly have to celebrate?”

That’s why I think He’s led me to remind someone today: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). 

For further encouragement, let’s look at that same Scripture in various translations:


“The Lord is near to those who are discouraged; he saves those who have lost all hope.” (GNT); 

“The Lord is there to rescue all who are discouraged and have given up hope.” (CEV); 

“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, and he saves those whose spirits have been crushed.” (NCV). 


However, my favorite is: “If your heart is broken, you’ll find God right there; if you’re kicked in the gut, he’ll help you catch your breath.” (MSG) 

In your brokenness is where you’ll find God right there! Now that’s encouragement! Because most people don’t want to be around someone who’s broken. Why? Because they know it will only be a time of tears, complaining, sob stories, self-pity parties, retelling of the same hurtful scripts over and over again. They know it will be a time spent in sorrow, pain, regret, hurt, rejection, and ‘why me’? chants. Who wants to hang around that, especially during the holidays? But Jesus is a friend that sticks closer than a brother! He could care less about any of that, He’s not leaving your side, nor is He turning a deaf ear to you, nor will He leave you there broken. After all, He is the mender of broken hearts! So, wherever you find yourself broken today, know that Jesus is Right There, even if no one else is! You my friend are on the verge of being mended!

The second part of that says this: “…if you’re kicked in the gut, he’ll help you catch your breath.” Truth is, life can hit you so hard it makes you double over in pain, with the breath knocked right out of you! But isn’t it awesome how God is ever present to give you your second wind?! That term ‘second wind’, has a few definitions but the one I’ll use here is, “a new strength or energy to continue something that is an effort.’ When God gives you a second wind it’s ‘new strength and energy to continue something that is an effort.’ And let’s be honest, trying to recover from brokenness takes effort! Pain and hurt has a way of weakening you to such a state that if God doesn’t supply the strength, you’ll never bounce back! Which is why sharing our weakness with God and waiting on His strength is so vital! 2 Corinthians 12:9, “but He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you [My lovingkindness and My mercy are more than enough—always available—regardless of the situation]; for [My] power is being perfected [and is completed and shows itself most effectively] in [your] weakness.” Therefore, I will all the more gladly boast in my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ [may completely enfold me and] may dwell in me.” (AMP) See, your weakness can’t destroy His strength, in fact, it’s what supplies it to you and for you! So be encouraged today, God is Right There and He’s Supplying You With Strength and a Second Wind, You Shall Recover, You Shall Bounce Back, You Shall Heal!


JESUS LOVES YOU; HE CARES THAT YOU’RE HURTING; HE’S THERE AND WANTS TO HELP HEAL YOUR BROKENNESS…ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS…LET HIM!

“Now that we know what we have—Jesus, this great High Priest with ready access to God—let’s not let it slip through our fingers. We don’t have a priest who is out of touch with our reality. He’s been through weakness and testing, experienced it all—all but the sin. So let’s walk right up to him and get what he is so ready to give. Take the mercy, ACCEPT THE HELP” (Hebrews 4:14-16 MSG). The word ‘accept’ is defined as, ‘to agree to receive or undertake something offered or proposed; to regard favorably or with approval.’ Its Latin origin ‘acceptare’, from ‘capere’, literally means ‘to take.’ People of God, it’s not that God hasn’t offered His help, the problem is we haven’t accepted it! Which makes absolutely no sense, since the word itself means ‘to take’! Therefore, today, Take the help God is offering to heal you and help you mend every broken area of your life. Don’t Focus so much on your Hurt that you lose Sight of His Help!

In Isaiah 61:1, the Son of God says, “The Lord has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted.” The Amplified Bible says it like this: “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, because the Lord has anointed and qualified me to preach the Gospel of good tidings to the meek, the poor, and afflicted; He has sent me to bind up and heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the [physical and spiritual] captives and the opening of the prison and of the eyes to those who are bound”

HE REALLY IS THE FIXER OF BROKEN HEARTS, AND BROKEN LIVES, AND BROKEN PEOPLE! How do I know? THE WORD OF GOD SAID SO, AND THE WORD OF GOD CAN’T LIE!

So if this Christmas Your Battling With Brokenness, Simply Lean On the One Who Has Been Charged to Bind Up the Brokenhearted…His Names Is JESUS!
Let Him Mend You and Make You Whole Again! After all, isn’t that a part of the Reason we celebrate Him this Season? The Son of God Coming to Seek and Save; Heal and Deliver? Surely this season has to mean more than trees, tinsel, lights, Santa, candy canes, egg nog, and gifts? After all, this season is the celebration of the ONLY ONE who Sacrificed His life so He could grant us Eternal Life. Surely LIFE that grants an ETERNAL GIFT means more than standing in LINES that grant only a TEMPORARY ONE?! Christmas is more than pretty wrapped boxes with bows, it’s a time to remember the Christ Who was Broken to Mend the Broken. No matter what sale/discount you receive at the store; nothing will ever be able to equal that value/worth! 

Psalm 147:3, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds [healing their pain and comforting their sorrow].” (AMP) I know what happened may have broken your heart, but don’t let it stop it from beating! God is there ready and willing to heal the brokenhearted and to bind up their wounds; to heal their pain and comfort their sorrow, so why suffer in silence, when His arms are open wide; His eyes are focused on you; His ears are open to your voice; His heart is filled with unconditional love for you; and He simply cannot wait to heal every ounce of your brokenness!

Remember: No Matter What Is Broken, Where It Broke, How Long and How Bad It’s Been Broken, Why It Broke, When It Broke or Who Broke It…He Can…and He Will Bind the Broken…Just Trust Him and Accept His Help to Heal! And this Broken Christmas May Just Prove to be Your Very Best Christmas Yet!

Remember the REASON not the RECEIPTS of This Christmas! He Came to Save, and that Includes Saving You from Suffering the Pain of Remaining Broken! Be Healed Today, Be Well Today, Be Happy Today, Be Made Whole Today!

“Christianity is the only hope for this broken world because there’s no other way for the broken to get the nails they need to rebuild.” (Author Unknown)

“Jesus came to heal everything in your life that’s broken and to restore everything the enemy has taken.” (Joyce Meyer)

“Broken things and broken people are the result of sin. Yet God sent His Son to be broken that we might be healed.” (Author Unknown)

“Lord, enlighten what’s dark in me; strengthen what’s weak in me; mend what’s broken in me; bind what’s bruised in me; heal what’s sick in me and lastly revive whatever peace and love has died in me.” (Author Unknown)

“God can heal a broken heart. But you need to give Him all the pieces.” (Author Unknown)

“God uses broken things. It takes broken soil to produce a crop, broken clouds to give rain, broken grain to give bread, broken bread to give strength. It is the broken alabaster box that gives forth perfume. It is Peter, weeping bitterly, who returns to greater power than ever.” (Vance Havner)

“Its so much easier to let God heal your broken heart than trying to do it in your own ability and strength. It’s not your job. Jesus is the healer of broken hearts.” (Author Unknown)

“God’s Healing Hand: If you have a mountain of pain before you or you’re lost in a cold valley of shadowy doubt, know that God’s healing hand is there to mend your broken heart and an angel’s smile is always looking over your shoulder to guide you with heavenly hope” (Robert Clancy)

“God knows the burdens you carry and the tears you shed. He is the healer of broken hearts, broken dreams, and broken lives. Trust Him. He never fails.” (Pastor John Hagee)

“Not to Self: Healing is NOT an overnight process. It takes time. Sometimes you’ll feel like you’re finally over something and happy again, and then unexpectedly the wound will reopen. But don’t give up and don’t get discouraged. Take each day one step at a time. Just try to be in a better place mentally and emotionally than you were yesterday.” (Author Unknown)

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"How Exercise Ignited My Weight Loss to Overcome Type 2 Diabetes?"

 

There I was again, sitting in my car in the parking lot of a local gym. It was a struggle to get out of the car. Not because of my excess weight at the time or some physical limitation. I simply didn’t feel like stepping foot in the gym that day, just like I didn’t feel up to working out a couple of days prior. 

A half-hour or so later, I finally walked into the gym. Hearing the clanking sounds of weights and seeing a gym full of ordinary people like me working on their health goals, was just enough inspiration to get me going. I was overweight, struggling to understand how to manage life with type 2 diabetes, and didn’t know where to begin when it came to exercise.

That was June 2021, the month I decided to get back in the gym, sweat it out, and do my best to lose weight, but for real this time.

I’m proud to say that I was able to drop over 80 pounds and come off all medications in less than a year. Today, I’m enjoying a healthier lifestyle all because I decided to continue showing up, getting out of my car, and putting in the work whether it’s in the gym, hiking, or running.

NO PAIN, NO GAIN

When you’re routinely sedentary, overweight, and struggling with type 2 diabetes and a slew of other metabolic health issues, physical activity feels very uncomfortable. Exercise is not supposed to leave you in constant pain and fatigue.

Make no mistake, when I started exercising more regularly, I would often feel pain everywhere: knees, back, neck, feet, and elbows. The joint pain was unreal. Walking flights of stairs was a challenge sometimes to the point where it felt like my knees were going to buckle at any moment. I assumed that the pain was a result of my body simply not being used to daily exercise. But it turns out that there was more to my situation: inflammation.

When inflammation occurs, it often leads to pain, swelling, and stiffness in the affected areas, making movement uncomfortable and sometimes even painful. That explains why my joints, muscles, and surrounding tissues were less flexible and hindered my ability to engage in a full range of motion during exercise. 

Regardless of what I was experiencing health-wise, I made up my mind to press past the pain and discomfort of exercising. What helped was learning that there is a correlation between inflammation and diet, which can impact exercise. 

Therefore, if you suspect that inflammation may be an issue for you as well, gain more knowledge about inflammation and its effects on physical exercise to determine the best course of action. 

YOU CAN'T OUT-EXERCISE A POOR DIET

Oftentimes, when some people think of losing weight, they either focus on what they eat or on their exercise. Healthy eating and regular exercise go hand-in-hand when it comes to developing a healthy lifestyle. I’ve found that achieving the proper balance between the two approaches is very important.

Maintaining a healthy diet is great, but by itself, may not be enough for you to lose weight and keep it off, let alone overcome type 2 diabetes. 

The same is true for exercise. You can spend hours in the gym, burning calories, but then load up on junk food and eventually destroy your progress with every meal. 

Food impacts your health, period.   

I eventually gave up the foods and drinks that were making my weight loss too difficult to achieve and maintain. From fried foods to highly processed carbs, candy, and even sugary soft drinks, I made the necessary changes to get results. Developing better eating habits made it a lot easier for me to enjoy exercising. Sticking to a daily regimen of healthy eating gave me the energy to exercise.

OVERALL BENEFITS OF EXERCISING, ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE DIABETES

Remember, don’t neglect or minimize physical exercise. Why? Exercise:   

• Helps lower blood sugar
• Boosts insulin sensitivity
• Burns fat
• Shaves pounds
• Boosts energy
• Protects your heart
• Can help improve your mood
• Makes you look better 
• Builds strength, conditioning, and endurance

So here are a few tips that I learned about exercise that made a difference in my life. 

TIP NO. 1: FIND YOUR EXERCISE RHYTHM

The first step to a healthier, more active lifestyle is finding your rhythm. You don't have to follow my exact routine. Instead, discover your groove by engaging in physical activities that you genuinely enjoy. The key is long-term consistency, not a short-term plan for rapid weight loss. Having fun is crucial. If you're enjoying your workouts, you're more likely to stick with them. 

TIP NO. 2: MIX IT UP

While it may seem easy to stick to one type of exercise, such as daily treadmill walks, diversifying your routine is essential. Mixing cardio, conditioning exercises, strength training, and flexibility or mobility exercises adds excitement and engages different muscle groups. Challenge yourself to move more, move better, and move consistently. Incorporating various activities keeps your workouts interesting and ensures a well-rounded fitness regimen.

I hope my weight loss journey to overcome type 2 diabetes inspires you to reach your health goals and beat diabetes as well. Your health is your most important asset. So, let's kick diabetes in the backside and move forward on the path towards better health! 

Oscar Camejo is passionate about helping people reverse and prevent type 2 diabetes through lifestyle changes. His own health journey has been truly transformative. At his heaviest, he weighed 268 pounds. He embraced clean eating and committed to daily exercise, shedding over 80 pounds. He no longer relies on diabetes, high blood pressure, or high cholesterol medications. Camejo hopes his journey inspires others facing similar challenges, emphasizing perseverance, discipline, and self-care. Camejo lives in Atlanta and has three adult children. You can reach him at his website, “Beating Diabetes Lifestyle,”  podcast, Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.

Learn, share, and connect with others on WebMD’s Type 2 Diabetes Facebook Support Group.

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The Goal is to Always Make You Aware of What Concerns Your Body, Soul and Spirit, So You Can Have Open, Honest and Frequent Discussions With Your Physicians and Counselors. You Can’t Treat or Cure What You Don’t Know is Sick.
 

"It's Not Selfish to Love Yourself, Take Care of Yourself and to Make Your Happiness a Priority. It's a Necessity." (Mandy Hale)

"Self-Care is Not Selfish. You Cannot Serve From an Empty Vessel." (Eleanor Brown)